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Death, Dying, Grief, Loss

Gathering of DaysA Gathering of Days:
A New England Girl’s Journal, 1830-32
by Joan W. Blos
Newbery Medal 1980
Ages 9–12

This novel is written in the form of a diary kept for a year by Catherine Cabot Hill, a 13-year-old girl in New Hampshire. Catherine’s mother has died, and she must keep house for her father and younger sister. During the year, Catherine undergoes school discipline, encounters runaway slaves, loses a friend, and faces new relationships when her father remarries a woman with children of her own.

Hate ListHate List
by Jennifer Brown
Ages 15–up
When Val and her boyfriend Nick wrote the names of people who tormented or annoyed them on a “Hate List,” Val had no idea Nick would use the list. When Nick brings a shotgun to school and begins shooting people on the list before killing himself, Val is wounded trying to stop him. But as the co-author of the “Hate List,” Val is implicated in the shootings. Val’s guilt and her complicated relationships with her family and the surviving victims are realistically and hauntingly portrayed.

PiecesAll The Broken Pieces
by Ann E. Burg
Ages 11–up
Two years ago Matt Pin was airlifted from war-torn Vietnam. Now 12, and living with his loving adoptive American family, Matt is still haunted by memories of the family he left behind. Told in first person free verse, Matt’s present and past are slowly revealed as he begins to come to terms with the guilt of being the only survivor.

MotherHer Mother’s Face
by Roddy Doyle, Freya Blackwood
Ages 4–8
When Siobhán was three her mother died. Now 10 years old, she cannot remember her mother’s face. Then a strange woman in the park tells her to search her own reflection in the mirror. As time passes, Siobhán realizes the woman was her mother. Blackwood’s illustrations mirror Doyle’s optimism that time heals grief.

MockingbirdMockingbird
by Kathryn Erskine
Ages 10–up
Caitlin Smith (10) has Asperger’s syndrome. She hates recess with all the noise and confusion, and meets with her counselor, Mrs. Brook, who helps her to understand the reasons behind her discomfort, while offering advice about how to make friends and deal with her grief over her older brother Devon’s death in a recent school shooting. Devon had always been Caitlin’s interpreter, explaining the grey areas in the world she sees as black and white. Without him, Caitlin struggles more than ever. When she hears the term “closure” Caitlin turns to her dictionary for help and decides to find closure for both herself and her grieving father. Caitlin’s first person narration provides insight into her incredible intelligence and conscientiousness paired with her limited social skills and her struggles to comprehend figurative language.

IfIf I Stay
by Gayle Forman
Ages 14–up
Mia, a talented 17-year-old cellist, remembers driving on a snowy Oregon road with her family, and then nothing until she is standing next to the wrecked car and her parents’ corpses, watching the paramedics tend to the damaged bodies of herself and her little brother. Told in flashbacks, this moving novel explores Mia’s life, the power of friends and family, and the things that make life worth living.

Ostrich BoysOstrich Boys
by Keith Gray
Ages 12–up
After their friend Ross is killed while riding his bike, Blake, Kenny, and Sim are furious at the fake show of support by previously uncaring teachers and classmates. So the three boys decide to steal his ashes and travel from London to the village of Ross in Scotland for a proper funeral. Along the way they get thrown off a train, chased by police, and meet some flirtations Scottish girls. They also confront their own relationships with Ross and face some hard truths about his death.

DustOut of the Dust
by Karen Hesse
Newbery Medal 1998
Ages 11–up

Billie Jo (14) records the grim realities of living in the Oklahoma dust bowl during the Depression. In her free verse journal, she reveals her mother’s death and her own burns in a fire and her father’s grief. Billie Jo’s hope for a better future shines through all the pain and struggle to survive.

The Snowball EffectThe Snowball Effect
by Holly Nicole Hoxter
Ages 12–up
Lainey (18) has a lot to deal with—her mother commits suicide, leaving Lainey in charge of her challenging 5-year-old adopted brother Collin. Then her estranged older step-sister Vallery arrives to take charge. Lainey’s long-time boyfriend tries to help out, but she takes her anger out on him and breaks up. Lainey’s efforts to deal with her grief as she and Vallery try to work together to raise Collin are honestly and effectively portrayed.

The Heart and the BottleThe Heart and the Bottle
by Oliver Jeffers
Ages 4–up
When a small girl loses her father, her only parent, she decides that the best thing is to put her heart in a bottle and hang it around her neck. All the wonder, curiosity, and delight in the world they shared together vanishes, but the girl believes her heart at least is safe from further pain. When the girl is older, her heart is restored when she meets someone smaller who still delights in the world. This gentle book is a quietly moving portrait of grief.

Kira-KiraKira-Kira
by Cynthia Kadohata
Newbery Medal 2005
Ages 11–14

In the 1950s, when Katie is five, her family moves from Iowa to Georgia, where there are few Japanese-Americans. Katie’s older sister Lynn takes care of her while their parents work long hours in the chicken-processing plant. Their roles reverse when Lynn develops lymphoma. Through the illness and Lynn’s death, Katie struggles to remember her sister as kira-kira, glittering and shining. Narrated by Katie, this beautifully written book tells a poignant story of love and loss.

GhostsNothing but Ghosts
by Beth Kephart
Ages 12–up
Katie (16) and her father are grieving the recent death of her mother. Her father, an artist who restores paintings, tries to lose himself in his work while pondering what color would be used to paint regret. Katie takes a summer job gardening for Miss Martine, the town recluse, and stumbles over clues about the mystery of Miss Martine’s abrupt withdrawal from the world. With her fellow teen worker Danny, and the help of the town librarian, Katie researches town history to solve the mystery and distract herself from her own grief.

InvisibleThe Last Invisible Boy
by Evan Kuhlman
Ages 10–14
In his notebook, Finn Garrett (12) explains that after his father died unexpectedly a few months ago, an eraser fell from the sky and has gradually been erasing him day by day. This painful yet funny novel explores coping with loss in a way middle schoolers can empathize with.
 
Hold StillHold Still
by Nina Lacour
Ages 14–up
Caitlin begins her high school junior year stunned by the suicide of her best friend Ingrid, a talented photographer and artist. Unable to make new friends or work on her own art, Caitlin is emotionally paralyzed until she discovers Ingrid’s journal, which is addressed to Caitlin. As Ingrid reveals her chronic depression and the thoughts of her final days, Caitlin begins to feel again, and to reach out to others.

Sarah Plain and TallSarah, Plain and Tall
by Patricia Maclachlan
Newbery Medal 1986
Ages 8–12

In the late 19th century, a widowed midwestern farmer with two children, Anna and Caleb, advertises for a wife. Sarah responds, saying that she is plain and tall. When Sarah arrives she is homesick for Maine, and especially for her beloved ocean. The children fear she will not stay. Narrated by Anna, this short book gently explores abandonment, loss, and love.

The Sky is EverywhereThe Sky Is Everywhere
by Jandy Nelson
Ages 14–up
Lennie (17), a shy bookworm and band geek, has always been content to live in her older sister Bailey’s shadow. When Bailey dies suddenly and unexpectedly of an arrhythmia, Lennie is not prepared to deal with the limelight she is thrust into. Consumed by grief and unsettled by her attraction to Bailey’s fiancé, Lennie struggles to deal with her new reality in this honest portrayal of a teen dealing with tragedy.

WaysWays To Live Forever
by Sally Nicholls
Ages 9–12
Eleven-year old Sam is in the final stages of leukemia. In his journal he keeps facts, questions, and lists. As the book progresses, Sam’s friend Felix dies and Sam begins to decline. Sam and his family face death with humor and grace in this moving novel.

LuckyThe Higher Power of Lucky
by Susan Patron
Newbery Medal 2007
Ages 8–12

Lucky (10) lives in a small town in the middle of the California desert with her French guardian, who has been caring for her since her mother died two years ago. Fearing that her guardian will leave her and return to France, Lucky stocks her survival backpack and searches for her Higher Power.

MayMissing May
by Cynthia Rylant
Newbery Medal 1993
Ages 9–12

When Summer’s foster mother Aunt May dies suddenly she is overcome with grief. But her foster father Uncle Ob is so sorrowful that Summer fears he will not be able to go on living without May. In a quest to find closure, Summer, Ob, and Cletus, a classmate of Summer’s, search for a spiritualist who may be able to communicate with May. They can’t find the spiritualist, but somehow the quest helps them to heal.

MapA Map of the Known World
by Lisa Ann Sandell
Ages 12–up
When 14-year-old Cara’s older brother dies in a car accident, her parents cannot rouse themselves from their numbing grief. Cara escapes into her passion for maps and mapmaking. Her art teacher, a new friend, and her brother’s best friend all help to slowly revive Cara’s emotional life and self-confidence.

LivedThe Way He Lived
by Emily Wing Smith
Ages 14–up
The six teen-aged narrators of this novel don’t have much in common except a connection with Joel Espen, who died of dehydration after giving away his water bottle during a badly planned Boy Scout outing. As the six teens from Haven, Utah, try to make sense of Joel’s death and his effect on their lives, their views of themselves and their community are transformed.

Last Summer of the Death WarriorsThe Last Summer of the Death Warriors
by Francisco Stork
Ages 14–up
Pancho Sanchez (17) is sent to a Catholic orphanage after his father and sister die within a few months. Pancho is determined to avenge the death of his sister by killing the man he believes is responsible. D.Q., a fellow orphan, asks Pancho to come with him to Albuquerque as support during his brain cancer treatment. Pancho agrees since that's where the man he is stalking lives. But D.Q.’s “Death Warrior Manifesto,” a document he has composed to help him live out his last days with purpose, gradually influences Pancho to consider choosing life over murder. This powerful novel deals with themes of responsibility, racial and family tension, and the purpose of life.

LocomotionLocomotion
by Jacqueline Woodson
Ages 9–12
In 60 poems, 11-year-old Lonnie Collins Motion tells his story as he explores different forms of poetry. Called Locomotion because of his constant activity, Lonnie and his sister were orphaned four years earlier. His younger sister Lili was adopted, and Lonnie struggles to stay in touch with her. The poignant poems tell a complex story of loss, grief, and poverty, while also demonstrating Lonnie’s creativity and optimism.

LocomotionPeace, Locomotion
by Jacqueline Woodson
Ages 9–12
Now 12, Lonnie Collins Motion, called Locomotion, writes letters to maintain a bond with his younger sister Lili who was adopted after the death of their parents. Miss Edna, Lonnie’s foster mother, has a son who returns home from the Iraq war, disabled and traumatized. Though his letters, the kind and sensitive Lonnie struggles to make sense of his life and to achieve a sense of peace. (sequel to Locomotion)